You’ve heard if online cyber sex – but – until you have experienced it – you have no idea how interesting it can be. I’ve found that you can easilly bring a woman to orgasm mearly by typing words. Its rather amazing actually. And – when a woman is anonymous – she’s a whole different person. Email and chat give you the anonymous experience.
And – you get to know each other really well – sexually that is. You don’t have to worry about your looks or your body language or what your voice sounds like or how you smell. Its all mental – and – you’ll learn that the art of sex is mostly mental too. I describe that in more detail in my Nerd’s Guide to Sex. But trust me – its all about mental imagery – and online – its all mental.
Years ago I had a friend who did radio ads for me when I owned a couple of computer stores. We used to put together the most outrageous radio spots and he told be something that I’ll never forget. He said that radio was far more visual than television because you can use sound to paint any kind of mental image you want – where television was limited to what you can afford to create. Online sex is like that. I can use words and become a nine foot tall slimey space alien – grey tentacles with lots of suckers and an appatite for swuirming female flesh and women picture that and are all over me, even though in real life I’m just an aging fat nerd.
You don’t have to start out as a space alien – but you can talk about your sexual fantasies and see if you can find common ground exporing the common mental imagery that perpetuate the human race. If you can establish this kind of online foreplay then by the time you get together physically – you’re both ready for it. And it is something that anyone can do and its not hard to learn and it will help you understand women better. Something that is worth understanding.
Many online dating services also have live online chat. Or you can download Yahoo Messenger and go to the chat rooms and explore online interaction. Its a good way to help you start communicating verbally about sexuality. Understanding what gets women really hot is the first step to becomming an incredible lover. And escorts are looking for guys like you who are ready to learn how the game is really played.
In the bigger cities many local escort agencies have web sites so the you can see the escorts and read a little about them
NOTE: For escorts reading this or women who are interested in becoming escorts – I wrote an article about how to become an escort using personal ads called The Shy Girl’s Guide to Becoming a Whore. This is a step by step guide for women who want to explore that aspect of their sexuality. Many women have told me that they have always wanted the experience of being a whore. This is how you can do it without having to actually take a job in the profession. Many women have written me about this and have tried it once just for the experience. Its can be something that’s very empowing and creates sexual confidence.
Escort Services vs. Online Escorts
Which is better – escort service or online escorts. Well – that depends on where you live. The more you know the better. If you call them on the phone then you’ll just get a vauge discription. But – if you live in a small town you might not have a lot of choice. Online has the advantage of “cutting out the middleman” and deal directly with the escort. And – an online escort at least has some computer skills which is somewhat of an IQ prequalifier. And – you can intereact with her to determine who is right for you.